A couple of weeks ago I put myself forward for an opportunity which would help me to build on both my confidence and experience in speaking. After the first round I was overwhelmed by the outcome and I was asked to return to take part in the second round which took place yesterday. Much to my disappointment I was unsuccessful and another competitor was invited back to the next stage of the competition.
Where did I go wrong or perhaps where could I improve to ensure that next time I outperform my competition?
“Mistakes are stepping stones to success.”
Unemployment is currently at 2.51million and with 453,000 vacancies that’s on average, five or more applicants competing for each vacancy.
How do you intend to outperform your competition? Do you practice what you preach? What interview advice would you give to your close friend, loved one or child looking for their first job out of university?
I’ve been self-employed for nearly 10 years, I’ve mentored hundreds of individuals through the interview process, informing them all that they should prepare and practise for their all-important interview. When it came to taking my own advice did I really listen or could I have done more?
If I’m honest, then I could have done a lot more.
*I could have perfected my speech by attending a couple of local clubs to practice.
*I could have fine-tuned my story by asking close friends and family for their input.
*I could have rehearsed in front of my webcam or a mirror and watched my body language
These are all the points that I preach to others and yet I didn’t. Why?
*I’m busy with my day to day work.
*My family demand my attention.
*I felt embarrassed to approach others for help.
Of course these are all excuses and the point I’m making is did I really care enough about winning?
Initially I wasn’t bothered, but when I arrived for the second round last night I felt a feeling of competitiveness, I wanted to win but it was too late. I didn’t give 100% to my preparation and so I lost.
Next time you are competing ask yourself - How much do I really want to win?
The desire to win = the effort you put in.
“I honestly believed I would make it. I had the desire. A lot of people have the ability, but they don't put forth the effort.” Joe Carter
Nikki Hutchison, founder of Chilli Pepper Global http://www.chillipepperglobal.com/ advising you on every aspect of the job seeking process guiding you step by step whether you are looking to move internally or externally.
